We spent New Year's Eve at a real party. By "real" I mean that it started after 9pm (so not a dinner party) and it was a collection of people mingling about drinks in hand. Most people didn't know more than a handful of other guests.
It was a diverse gathering of people too. 20-something up to 50-ish I would guess. Couples with kids, singles, gays, straights, drunk and sober. The theme was "Panic at the Disco" so everyone had something in common. And with 4 official hosts, it was more complex than a wedding when asking the "How do you fit in here" question.
We took our infant of "and a half" with us. She was a hit and got spoiled with the amount of attention she attracted. She was also a "chick and dick" magnet. Everyone seemed more open to chat us up --mostly very innocently, but it did result in our meeting a large number of party acquaintances and potential new friends.
And now with the Facebook phenomenon it has become so much easier to "hook up" with your new party friend. Within days I had made the "contact" with that person who had become the darling party buddy. Those friends are normally like one-night stands. You fall in love for the evening, exchange contact details, promise to be best friends forever and slowly fade from each other's memories as the glow of the glitzy night fades. No more.
Currently, I'm "dating" one of my three new facebook buddies that I met at the party. We're exchanging messages and getting to know one another. I think I have a new friend on the way.
As a child there was a song we learned which went:
Make new friendsBut keep the old,One is silver and the other gold.
Here's to new and old friends.